Ed Hungness: There's more to give than new gadgets

Ed Hungness

December 27, 2007

BY ED HUNGNESS The Record Eagle Thu Dec 27, 2007, 12:01 PM EST

Technology has taken a giant leap in the past 50 years. Every day I am amazed at all of the new electronic devices that are being introduced. Much of it has left me in the dust as far as being able to comprehend it all. When I was young, Tinker Toys were high-tech and Lincoln Logs were on the cutting edge. These days, iPods and Nintendo Wii Systems have captured the hearts and minds of young and old alike. I often wonder what cell phones will do next. I can recall when a telephone was mainly used for calling Grandma on Sunday afternoons or for emergency situations.

If seniors don't attempt to keep up with advancing technology, it's likely we will have difficulty understanding and communicating with our children and grandchildren. Challenging as it seems, it can be done. It may take us a little longer to learn, but with patience and perseverance we can prevail. Last Christmas our grandkids got a Wii from their mom and dad. I wondered if the parents might have wanted it just as much as the kids did. Well, Grandma and I had a ball playing all the games on it. In fact, Grandma wanted to buy one. I tried to talk her out of it on the way home, and I think I convinced her that she could get her Wii "fix" anytime we visited the grandchildren. I hope my logic worked, but why is she still checking those ads?

Actually, all this technology is good for young people. They need to keep up with our changing world and realize that technology affects us in many aspects of our daily lives including how we make a living. The old days of standing on an assembly line are quickly disappearing. My only problem with all this is that we have to keep technology, and the gadgets that go along with it, in perspective. Computers and cell phones are tools. They are things to make our lives easier, not more complicated. Daily, we are bombarded with commercials about the latest new features in cell phones and are reminded that we need to "stay in touch." Let's remember that it's mainly a telephone, and sometimes it's nice not to reachable. Likewise, not everyone in the family needs one. It's called marketing, I believe.

We sometimes miss the past when things seemed much simpler, but I'm guessing that our parents and grandparents probably felt the same way about radio and television when they were first introduced.

Let's enjoy the new technology and try to keep up, but also keep it in check. Over the Christmas vacation, take the kids sledding, to a movie or help them build a snowman. Give them the gift of your time to go along with the material things. They will remember your gift of memory-making long after the gadgets are obsolete and forgotten.

Ed Hungness and his wife owned their cottage on Fife Lake for six years before moving there after his retirement in 2005. His writing draws from life experiences and a love for the outdoors and northern Michigan. He can be reached at edhungness@yahoo.com or care of the Record-Eagle.

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Today I am sharing one story with you about a real survivor.
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On my regular visits to town I frequently saw a man on a bicycle. I saw him on good weather days as well as days that were not conducive to bike riding. In rain and even snow there he was, always holding on to a large black plastic trash bag that dangled from the handlebars. Sometimes he looked soaked to the bone as he made his rounds.
Daily he rode his bike along the highway into the village. Upon his arrival he began his routine of stopping at dumpsters, "picking" cans and bottles that carry a 10-cent deposit. He checked businesses, parks, the boat launch site and the roadsides. At the end of the day, he cashed in his cans and bottles. This was his only employment. I felt sorry for him on wet and cold days. With no fenders on his bike, the water or snow flew off his tires, soaking him both front and back.
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Turning onto the highway, I couldn't help but notice the deep blue color of the clear northern sky. Sunlight filtered through the leaves and branches painted a mosaic-like pattern on the pavement. "How lucky we are to live in such a beautiful place" I thought to myself.
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We've been homeowners in Fife Lake for 11 years and had not seen a bear. We saw bears in Yellowstone and while camping in the Upper Peninsula. We've seen bears in Wisconsin and Colorado, but to our dismay we had never spotted one here.
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"NOW!" she said.
Figuring that the cottage was on fire but not yet smelling of smoke, I hung up the phone and raced to her assistance.
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The village of Walton Junction may be empty, but the Walton Junction Sportsman's Club is thriving.
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